When People Can’t Hear You: Vibrational Differences

Have you ever tried to explain something to someone, but they just couldn’t hear you? Perhaps a friend couldn’t hear your side of the story, or your parents couldn’t understand your motivation for wanting to do something.  Perhaps you argued with your significant other over what was said or what happened.

This is a common phenomenon, and I know it can be frustrating!

The thing to understand is that sometimes people WON’T hear you.  And it’s not because they are jerks or because they are ignorant or because they lack vision-it’s because you are both on different vibrational frequencies.

In every moment of every day, we are tuned into a specific vibrational energy. Sometimes it’s high, sometimes it’s low, and some days it fluctuates a great deal.  However, it is our vibrational energy that determines who hears us, AND who we can hear.

When we are high and happy, messages of hate and complaint simply don’t resonate with us.  For example, if I am feeling good and someone comes to tell me how bad their life is, all I really hear is “blah, blah, blah, I’m complaining.”

However, if I’m in a foul mood suddenly I fully understand the rage and the anger! It’s also a lot more tempting to get involved in the complaining when I am resonating at a low level.

Conversely, if you are feeling inspired and happy and want to share your positive thoughts with the world, some people just aren’t going to hear it.  Instead of feeling inspired and uplifted, all they will hear is “blah, blah, blah my head is in the clouds and everything I’m saying is ridiculous.” 

Even further, it’s possible that they become so removed from you vibrationally that the phone drops the call, or your conversation gets interrupted. When you are too vibrationally removed from the person you are communicating with, you can guarantee he or she will have a difficult time honestly hearing anything you have to say.

This has been valuable information to me when it comes to dealing with people. 

When you feel like you have to keep explaining yourself over, and over again, it’s helpful to remember that the other person isn’t going to be able to hear you from where they stand.  Clearly, they are in a different energetic state.

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Knowing this has saved me from countless arguments and debates.  If I can tell my point just isn’t being heard, I chalk it up to vibrational differences. I don’t even waste my time trying anymore. I know my voice won’t be heard, and continuing to repeat myself will only cause me to get frustrated and lower my own vibrational frequency.

In other words, when you are flying high, remember not to “stoop to their level!”

This, by the way, is why so many people get frustrated around “toxic people.” In order to truly communicate with people who are on a much lower level, you yourself have to let your vibration take a nose dive!

Arguing with an angry person is a one-way ticket to rage town, and commiserating with someone who is sad will send you all the way down to depression junction. Trust me, I’ve been to both, and neither one is worth the trip.

Just remember, your perceptions and thoughts are 100% valid, and they don’t require anyone else’s confirmation or acceptance.  Your perception will always be an accurate representation of your vibrational energy, regardless of how anyone else is perceiving it from their level. To keep your vibration high, you just can’t worry about those who can’t see the world from up on your perch.

Stay elevated, and let it go. Change the conversation, and if you can’t, excuse yourself and try again later when you’re both resonating at a decent level.  Remember, it’s not that they are incapable of hearing you ever, it’s just that they can’t hear you right this minute. Vibrational frequencies change frequently, after all.

Keep your rose-colored glasses on, and don’t be afraid to abandon situations that require you to take them off!

XO, Andrea

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