Love is the very highest vibration we can feel, so naturally we all wish to find it!  While lots of people do find love, many still struggle to find romantic relationships that are lasting and fulfilling.  Fortunately, we all have the power within us to attract loving relationships. 

With the Law of Attraction, thoughts become things.  Therefore, by manipulating one’s thoughts, beliefs and actions to focus on love (rather than lack of love), anyone can manifest a loving, romantic relationship into their life.

Here are four steps to find true love with the Law of Attraction:

1. Be mindful of your language: When we are feeling lonely and unloved it’s important to keep these thoughts as quiet as possible so they don’t push love further away from us.

Saying things like “all of the good ones are taken,” “I hate being single,” or “love hurts” are all examples of language that can prevent love from manifesting in your life.  Even if you feel like these statements are true, it’s best to keep these feelings as private as possible.  The more we talk about them,  the more we will think them, and the truer they will be for us.

2. Look for the love that’s already there, and give thanks for it: Love comes in all shapes and sizes.  Feeling and appreciating any form of love will bring true love closer to you.

If you feel you are missing the love of a romantic relationship, dig into your life to find areas that you’ve already been blessed with love, and really allow yourself to express gratitude for them.  Perhaps you have the love of your mother, a friend, or even a pet.

Be thankful for the love you already have, and you will attract more love into your life.

3. Love yourself: Many people are unable to attract true love into their lives because they do not demonstrate self-love first.  We can’t expect the Law of Attraction to bring us love when we withhold it from ourselves!

Take the time to show love and affection to yourself.  Speak kindly of yourself, take care of your needs and pamper yourself from time to time.

Treat yourself the way you would want your ideal partner to treat you, and you will attract a relationship that gives you everything you need.

4. Spread love to others: With the Law of Attraction, you get what you put out there, so put more love into the universe!  Give love first to others, and you will receive love back.

You can find evidence that this technique works by evaluating your friends and relatives who have the best relationships.  Chances are, the people you know who have found their true loves are also people who give love freely to others.

So give your friends hugs.  Tell your Dad you love him.  Find a way to feel and show love to more people in your life.

If you can get yourself into the vibration of giving love, you will simultaneously put yourself into the vibration of receiving it.

Although many people feel that finding love is simply coincidental or happens by “luck,” we all have the power to intentionally attract love by modifying our thoughts, beliefs and actions.   When we speak positively of love, are grateful for the love we have, love ourselves and spread love to others, we align ourselves to the frequency of having a truly loving relationship.

We all deserve love in our lives, and we all can absolutely have it.  Project more love into the universe, and you will receive more back from it.

XO, Andrea

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Photo Credit: “Couple in Love” by Pedro Ribeiro Simões. Some Rights Reserved.  This image has been cropped and resized.



  • NV
    Posted November 10, 2016 2:44 pm 0Likes

    lovely article. sending lots of love to the entire universe

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted November 10, 2016 5:07 pm 0Likes

    thank you for all of your lovely comments today NV! 🙂 XO

  • Seema
    Posted April 28, 2017 4:34 am 0Likes

    Thank you so much…. I have been practicing this for a while and observing many changes….I am happy for no reason and feel loved …..

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 28, 2017 1:50 pm 0Likes

    Wonderful, so glad to hear it Seema <3

  • Tania
    Posted January 29, 2018 3:11 am 0Likes

    Hello Andrea, so glad I came across your blog and a big thank you for all you’ve been sharing! 😀
    I have a question though – in this post, it suggests 4 steps to attract true love while I’ve read an earlier post that we need not to try so hard and continuously keep thinking about it. Which is the way to go?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted January 29, 2018 7:50 am 0Likes

    Yes I see your point Tania! Well, I would say that the steps I’ve outlined here are an attempt to bridge the gap between the desire to try (wanting steps) and relaxing about the situation. Notice, these are less about trying to draw someone in and more about stepping into a state of self-love and appreciation for life <3

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