5 Secrets to the Law of Attraction
Although the Law of Attraction is a very simple process, many of us still struggle to manifest the things we really want. This is because we’ve often adopted behaviors and beliefs over the years that are not harmonious with conscious creation. To help make things easier, here are a few quick secrets to the Law of Attraction many people either don’t know, or forget to keep in mind on a regular basis.
See if you can use these secrets to your advantage. If you can fully internalize these ideas and act in alignment with them, you will start to manifest more of what you want and less of what you don’t.
Secret #1: Positive language helps you manifest what you want
Phrase your language in the positive. Instead of telling your kids “don’t jump on the couch!” say “please sit down.” Instead of saying “I’m not losing weight!” say “I’m proud of myself for eating healthy foods today” Instead of saying “The weather today sucks!” say “I can’t wait for another beautiful day!”
Resist the temptation to point out what you don’t like and what you don’t want, and instead point out what you do like and what you do want. Language is very powerful, and it affects our vibration in a highly significant way. When we speak of what we don’t want, we attract it. When we mention what we don’t like, more of it shows up.
To manifest what you want, use positive language as much as possible! It’s an easy trick that works.
Secret #2: Conscious creation should be easy, if you’re working at all-you’re working too hard.
So often we take the manifestation process so seriously and this makes it much harder for us to intentionally create our realities. We overthink things and overthinking is a dream killer. Conscious creation is a simple process. When it feels hard, we’re doing it wrong.
To get into the habit of creating easily and effortlessly, one thing you can do is start to take advantage of “wish opportunities” like shooting stars and wishing wells. The nice thing about “wish opportunities” is that they are quick and we don’t spend too much effort on them. We just put them out there and move on about our day, and this is really how the Law of Attraction works best.
So the next time an eyelash falls to your cheek, you have to blow out a birthday candle or you see 11:11 (like now!) make a quick wish. Take advantage of as many “wish opportunities” as you can to get in the habit of putting your desires out there easily and effortlessly.
Secret #3: Good conscious creators allow themselves to dream big
Do a little daydreaming about the big, seemingly impossible dreams! As the saying goes, “Shoot for the moon, even if you miss you’ll land among the stars.” Master conscious creators shoot for the moon.
Many of us only dare to dream about the things we think are possible by most people’s standards, and so we tend to make fairly limited requests of the universe. Instead of dreaming about the Ferrari, we ask the universe for a new Toyota. Instead of dreaming about the European vacation, we keep our fingers crossed for a weekend in Chicago. Not to say that manifesting Toyotas and weekend trips to Chicago is a bad thing (and they are excellent manifestations to attract to yourself!) but why not spice things up with a few extraordinary dreams as well? Why not push the boundaries of what you believe is possible?
To really harness the power of the Law of Attraction, we must realize that we have unlimited potential. Daring to dream big is a sign to the universe that you believe that anything is possible, or at the very least, that you are on your way to believing.
So take some time and think about what it would feel like be a billionaire, create an empire or change the world. Again, just imagine without effort or overthinking. Your job is simply to dream of what you really want. Always leave the details about how it will happen to the universe.
Secret #4: Limitations kill dreams
Many of us have a tendency to list out all of the reasons why our big dreams are unachievable. We tell ourselves that we can only have what we want if we first get a college degree, get more experience or save up more money.
When you find yourself thinking or talking about your limiting beliefs, stop! Your job is to dream up what you want, not decide how it comes to you. Stop putting up blockades to the universe by identifying possible problems and limitations.
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If we live in an infinite universe, anything must be possible, so resist the urge to tell yourself why you can’t do, be or have exactly what you want. Again, manifestation is very, very simple. You just think about what you want and then surrender you dream to the universe. That’s it.
Leave the details to the universe, and let it decide how your dreams will unfold. Manifestations can come to you in the most unusual ways, and the universe knows the way around any “limitation” you think you might have.
Secret #5: How you FEEL is the most important factor
Monitoring your thoughts can be hard work, but monitoring your feelings is relatively simple. The better you feel, the better your energy and the more you will attract the things you want. Just do what makes you feel good and you will be on the right path.
Spend time engaged in your favorite hobbies, listen to music that makes you smile and watch movies that keep you laughing. Make your happiness priority one, and everything else will fall in line. Remember, if you feel good you are always in the process of attracting something you want. Whenever you don’t feel good, stop what you’re doing and try to find something else that makes you feel a little better.
As a side note, when you are down and depressed please go easy on yourself! You are allowed to feel bad sometimes, and guilting yourself about feeling poorly will not help you feel any better. Cut yourself some slack and simply try out a few strategies to make you feel better as you feel able.
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Remember, you always have the power to change whatever you don’t like, so if you’re in a slump it isn’t the end of the world. You can always change things around later, so in the grand scheme of things it really doesn’t matter where you are vibrationally at any given time.
Although the Law of Attraction is a fairly simple process, many of us have adopted beliefs, behaviors and feelings that make conscious creation more difficult than it has to be. By understanding these secrets to the Law of Attraction, we can adjust our habits to become better conscious creators.
These are just five quick secrets to the Law of Attraction, but there are others. What secrets have you stumbled upon? Comment below and let us know!
XO, Andrea (Law of Attraction Educator)