5 Secrets to the Law of Attraction

Although the Law of Attraction is a very simple process, many of us still struggle to manifest the things we really want.  This is because we’ve often adopted behaviors and beliefs over the years that are not harmonious with conscious creation.  To help make things easier, here are a few quick secrets to the Law of Attraction many people either don’t know, or forget to keep in mind on a regular basis. 

See if you can use these secrets to your advantage.  If you can fully internalize these ideas and act in alignment with them, you will start to manifest more of what you want and less of what you don’t. 

Secret #1: Positive language helps you manifest what you want

Phrase your language in the positive.  Instead of telling your kids “don’t jump on the couch!” say “please sit down.” Instead of saying “I’m not losing weight!” say “I’m proud of myself for eating healthy foods today”  Instead of saying “The weather today sucks!” say “I can’t wait for another beautiful day!”

Resist the temptation to point out what you don’t like and what you don’t want, and instead point out what you do like and what you do want. Language is very powerful, and it affects our vibration in a highly significant way.  When we speak of what we don’t want, we attract it.  When we mention what we don’t like, more of it shows up.

To manifest what you want, use positive language as much as possible! It’s an easy trick that works.

Secret #2: Conscious creation should be easy, if you’re working at all-you’re working too hard.

So often we take the manifestation process so seriously and this makes it much harder for us to intentionally create our realities.  We overthink things and overthinking is a dream killer. Conscious creation is a simple process.  When it feels hard, we’re doing it wrong.

To get into the habit of creating easily and effortlessly, one thing you can do is start to take  advantage of “wish opportunities” like shooting stars and wishing wells. The nice thing about “wish opportunities” is that they are quick and we don’t spend too much effort on them. We just put them out there and move on about our day, and this is really how the Law of Attraction works best.

So the next time an eyelash falls to your cheek, you have to blow out a birthday candle or you see 11:11 (like now!) make a quick wish.  Take advantage of as many “wish opportunities” as you can to get in the habit of putting your desires out there easily and effortlessly.

Secret #3: Good conscious creators allow themselves to dream big

Do a little daydreaming about the big, seemingly impossible dreams!  As the saying goes, “Shoot for the moon, even if you miss you’ll land among the stars.”  Master conscious creators shoot for the moon.

Many of us only dare to dream about the things we think are possible by most people’s standards, and so we tend to make fairly limited requests of the universe.  Instead of dreaming about the Ferrari, we ask the universe for a new Toyota.  Instead of dreaming about the European vacation, we keep our fingers crossed for a weekend in Chicago.  Not to say that manifesting Toyotas and weekend trips to Chicago is a bad thing (and they are excellent manifestations to attract to yourself!) but why not spice things up with a few extraordinary dreams as well?  Why not push the boundaries of what you believe is possible?

To really harness the power of the Law of Attraction, we must realize that we have unlimited potential.  Daring to dream big is a sign to the universe that you believe that anything is possible, or at the very least, that you are on your way to believing.

So take some time and think about what it would feel like be a billionaire, create an empire or change the world.  Again, just imagine without effort or overthinking.  Your job is simply to dream of what you really want.  Always leave the details about how it will happen to the universe.

Secret #4: Limitations kill dreams

Many of us have a tendency to list out all of the reasons why our big dreams are unachievable.  We tell ourselves that we can only have what we want if we first get a college degree, get more experience or save up more money.

When you find yourself thinking or talking about your limiting beliefs, stop! Your job is to dream up what you want, not decide how it comes to you.  Stop putting up blockades to the universe by identifying possible problems and limitations.

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If we live in an infinite universe, anything must be possible, so resist the urge to tell yourself why you can’t do, be or have exactly what you want. Again, manifestation is very, very simple.  You just think about what you want and then surrender you dream to the universe.  That’s it.

Leave the details to the universe, and let it decide how your dreams will unfold.  Manifestations can come to you in the most unusual ways, and the universe knows the way around any “limitation” you think you might have.

Secret #5: How you FEEL is the most important factor

Monitoring your thoughts can be hard work, but monitoring your feelings is relatively simple.  The better you feel, the better your energy and the more you will attract the things you want. Just do what makes you feel good and you will be on the right path.

Spend time engaged in your favorite hobbies, listen to music that makes you smile and watch movies that keep you laughing.  Make your happiness priority one, and everything else will fall in line.  Remember, if you feel good you are always in the process of attracting something you want.  Whenever you don’t feel good, stop what you’re doing and try to find something else that makes you feel a little better.

As a side note, when you are down and depressed please go easy on yourself!  You are allowed to feel bad sometimes, and guilting yourself about feeling poorly will not help you feel any better.   Cut yourself some slack and simply try out a few strategies to make you feel better as you feel able

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Remember, you always have the power to change whatever you don’t like, so if you’re in a slump it isn’t the end of the world.  You can always change things around later, so in the grand scheme of things it really doesn’t matter where you are vibrationally at any given time.

Although the Law of Attraction is a fairly simple process, many of us have adopted beliefs, behaviors and feelings that make conscious creation more difficult than it has to be.  By understanding these secrets to the Law of Attraction, we can adjust our habits to become better conscious creators.

These are just five quick secrets to the Law of Attraction, but there are others.  What secrets have you stumbled upon?  Comment below and let us know!

XO, Andrea (Law of Attraction Educator)

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  • Charles Owen
    Posted March 23, 2015 4:53 pm 0Likes

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  • Ana Paula
    Posted March 27, 2015 3:07 pm 0Likes

    Tks for your tips… Really helpful
    Lots of love

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted March 28, 2015 1:17 pm 0Likes

    Thanks Ana 🙂

  • Whatteparadox
    Posted March 29, 2015 9:33 pm 0Likes

    Such a great article ! Well written .can pls share your thoughts about time buffer? Because we all suffer from this ‘Time’ things .We wish for something good but when it comes to time ,we start panicking.
    Thanks ! Huge hug!

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted March 30, 2015 7:23 am 0Likes

    Ahhh….yes the “time buffer” can be frustrating.

    Truthfully, if you are in the exact vibration of what you want, things can manifest immediately, but oftentimes they don’t for a few good reasons,

    1. We may have the expectation that a manifestation is going to take awhile (and this is usually a sign that we have tried to decide how a manifestation will appear, which limits the universe’s capacity to bring you what you want in an infinite number of ways)
    2. Through noticing that it hasn’t manifested yet, we often push it away longer than it needs to wait.

    Therefore, I think it’s a really good idea to dream up what you want, try not to think about “how” it is going to show up, and then drop the subject and distract yourself from it. If you make it a non-issue, I’ve found it’s quicker and easier for things to manifest. Deliberating too much about the time buffer can make them take a very long time to appear.

    Hope this helps! Andrea

  • Gourika jaiswal
    Posted October 25, 2015 2:47 pm 0Likes

    aww.. wonderful columns.. Truely inspiring and i have been reading about LOA from an year and can see the difference how positive thinking , applying LOA in our life’s helps.. love you andrea for such a great work.. 🙂

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted October 25, 2015 4:26 pm 0Likes

    Thank you Gourika! I appreciate your kind words 🙂

  • benvlhp
    Posted October 26, 2015 6:28 am 0Likes
  • www.parvaresheafkar.com
    Posted February 23, 2016 3:07 am 0Likes

    Really helpful

    thank you

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted February 23, 2016 11:07 am 0Likes

    Thank you for your comment 🙂

  • Janet M. Jarvis
    Posted March 11, 2016 8:10 pm 0Likes

    These secrets to the Law of Attraction useful?

    For me the secret number 4 is the key….

    we action are higher limited…for our own mindset…

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted March 12, 2016 2:39 pm 0Likes

    Thanks Janet! Yes, limitations are so important to release…I agree 🙂

  • Andrew
    Posted May 30, 2016 1:02 pm 0Likes

    Thank you very much for making time to share these secrets. the universe will give you more and more secrets to share with people.
    Andrea, please is the law of attraction against the word of God?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted May 30, 2016 1:21 pm 0Likes

    Thanks Andrew!

    Excellent question. I do not believe so at all as I see many parallels between traditional religious views and the Law of Attraction. My personal view is that God creates through us…and it is our connection to God (or the universe/spirit guides/angels/etc) that allows creation to flow easily and pleasantly. In my opinion, our connection is evidence through our feelings, and the better we feel, the more connected we are.

    Sometimes religions have many limitations that are not necessarily supported via the LOA, but the base idea that there is one grand creator, and the “all is the one/the one is the all” is concurrent with my definitions of the LOA.

    Of course, it is best for each of us to come to our own conclusions about creation. In my opinion, whichever definitions allow you the greatest amount of peace and joy in your life are the best definitions for you to follow.

    XO, Andrea

  • Andrew
    Posted May 31, 2016 3:07 pm 0Likes

    Thank you Madam Andrea. With all due respect, I’m sorry for asking many questions, but one more last; I’m 24 years from Ghana but I currently work in Libya.
    Secret #1 talked about positive language, I love listening to gospel music and lot of the songs are full of negative language. do I have to stop playing such music’s?. I will also wanna now, how many times do I have to meditate a day and whether at my age (24) I’m qualified to use the LOA.
    Thank you.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted May 31, 2016 5:33 pm 0Likes

    Hi Andrew! Not a problem:)

    As for your question on music…I would say that “it depends.” My rule of thumb with music is that using music effectively means that music is making you feel BETTER. However, the kinds of music that will make you feel better, will depend on how you feel in the first place!

    So, if you are in a very happy, high flying place, and these songs “kill your vibe” a little, I would not recommend listening to them in moments of happiness. However, if you are in a sad or angry state, and these songs provide you a little relief, go for it!

    Just be mindful of how music makes you feel, as music is very “seductive” and can elicit strong emotions from you.

    As for you question on meditation, again-it depends. For new conscious practitioners of the LOA, I usually recommend 10-15 minutes each morning. However, again, it depends on how you are appreciating the meditation. If you are enjoying it and finding it calming and uplifting, by all means go for it! If it comes to feel boring or tedious, feel free to substitute it with another vibration-raising strategy (perhaps listening to good music, or doing yoga or watching inspiring videos). My opinion is simply that spending a little time in the morning getting your vibe up is always time well spent.

    And finally, yes, you are totally qualified to use the LOA! In fact, you are already using and you are very good at using it. Every good thing in your life is your creation through the LOA. All we are doing here, is helping you to become conscious of your creating, and helping you identify strategies to align with more of what you want, and less of what you don’t. The younger we start with this, the better, so being 24 is actually an advantage to you.

    XO, Andrea

  • Andrew
    Posted June 1, 2016 6:32 am 0Likes

    Wow!!!, people should help me thank the universe for their love for me!!!. Today if one should pop up in my room, the person might say I’m now getting mad. I was just talking alone during meditation as if my request was granted!! and the whole of today was just full of joy for me! this is soo simple. if you don’t believe, please just meditate for me:):):).
    Thank you very much Madam Andrea. I have now seen the affiliation between me and the universe and my life has already changed!!!!

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted June 1, 2016 11:12 am 0Likes

    Thanks for sharing your happiness Andrew! Sounds like you were in serious alignment when you wrote this…well done:) You have the capacity to get into this state whenever you like. XO, Andrea

  • Narges
    Posted July 3, 2016 4:02 pm 0Likes

    thank you so much Andrea.I’m Iranian and I was looking for sth good for my lecture.well done… you helped me a lot.it was really usefull for me.thanks for sharing this topic for us.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted July 4, 2016 10:40 am 0Likes

    Thank you for the positive feedback Narges! XO, Andrea

  • Malhar
    Posted July 12, 2016 2:43 am 0Likes

    Awesome. Limitations do kill and I feel it creates pre-judgements which never allows it grow or to change. I’ve often noticed that while starting any new thing you prejudge the bad outcomes then the said thing will always become length

    So always think good think positive

    Thank you for awesome post

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted July 12, 2016 7:32 am 0Likes

    Thanks Malhar! I’m glad you enjoyed this article. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this topic!

  • Dhara
    Posted September 26, 2016 7:32 am 0Likes

    It’s really helpful tips.. I wann a asking that does LOA applicable also for our body as example like our hair, body figure, skin?????

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted September 26, 2016 11:27 am 0Likes

    Yes it is Dhara. My best suggestion here is to come to love and appreciate your body as is first and foremost, and to focus on the aspects of your physical body you appreciate. We can’t change what we “don’t like,” as focusing on what we “don’t like” causes it to persist. Instead, we focus on what we “do like” and allow our appreciation to cause our body to metamorphous into something we like better. XO, Andrea

  • Raquell Silveira
    Posted December 5, 2016 7:03 am 0Likes

    I really like it Andrea! Thanks!
    What you think about Bob Proctor?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted December 5, 2016 2:24 pm 0Likes

    Thanks Raquell! Yes, love Bob Proctor-I find him highly entertaining and inspiring:) XO

  • Fabio Alves
    Posted February 28, 2017 8:03 am 0Likes

    Very good article. The law of attraction should be part of school matter, as it would save us from many mistakes

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted February 28, 2017 11:06 am 0Likes

    I agree Fabio, actually this is why I got out of education-I figured it made more sense for me to actually “teach” the LOA! 🙂

  • happy vishu images and wishes
    Posted April 12, 2017 12:21 am 0Likes

    great article. thanks for sharing this with us. i will surely try this tips

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 12, 2017 10:50 am 0Likes

    Thanks for you kinds words! <3

  • Tim Hoff
    Posted April 28, 2017 6:30 am 0Likes

    Thank you for informative & really needed a post about Law of Attraction.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 28, 2017 1:49 pm 0Likes

    Thanks Tim!

  • Chris
    Posted May 20, 2017 2:06 pm 0Likes

    Hi Andrea, I really enjoy reading your articles. I really want my ex back. I have some blocks on letting go, I have read your ebook about being able to let go but there is a block somewhere in me and I am not sure where to begin to find exactly what it is.
    Also do I need to let him go before I try manifesting?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted May 20, 2017 3:32 pm 0Likes

    Hi Chris:) If you haven’t yet seen this video series I did on love attraction you might find it useful in this situation: https://raiseyourvibrationtoday.com/2016/04/17/law-attraction-love-series-part-1-3/

  • Jil
    Posted May 21, 2017 3:44 pm 0Likes

    Hi Andrea :-)……just received your NL…..and the article here is absolutely supportive(love the one on the subconscious mind,too).Your website(name) is alive and radiating – you walk the talk :D. I tried the contact sheet again today,don’t know if it worked.Howsoever,be sure i’ll let people know about your work.If this website raises it’s vibration further on,it’ll be good for all us here :-).Like you already know i’m on twitter taking the 100 day’s of happiness journey….and i’ll send you some happy music……aloha ……Jil 🙂

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted May 21, 2017 3:47 pm 0Likes

    Thanks Jil! Well, I will have to check out to make sure the contact sheet is working. Might need to do an update or something since I didn’t receive the message. You can always try me direct at raiseyourvibrationTODAY at gmail dot com. Hope that works for ya! <3

  • Divyanshu Jadon
    Posted July 28, 2017 6:48 am 0Likes

    I have a question related to LOA. If i want admission in desired collage, can I get that by applying LOA? For that I have to study hard but don’t know where to start. What to do in this situation. By the way it is a great article.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted July 28, 2017 9:07 am 0Likes

    Indeed you can Divyanshu…here is an article you may find helpful at this juncture: https://raiseyourvibrationtoday.com/2017/02/08/how-to-set-goals-achieve/

  • Divyanshu Jadon
    Posted July 28, 2017 10:31 pm 0Likes

    That article was helpful too. You are doing a great work. God may bless you.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted July 29, 2017 2:21 pm 0Likes

    Thanks Divyanshu-blessings to you as well <3

  • Divyanshu Jadon
    Posted August 4, 2017 12:08 am 0Likes

    Hii! Andrea,
    Sorry for disturbing again. I am in great trouble. I have an exam after 10 days but haven’t studied a bit. I’m to complete some worksheets and exercises for that. I know I can do that but when I start doing that I feel sleepy and lazy. So my question is how to overcome laziness and generate interest in everything?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted August 4, 2017 7:36 am 0Likes

    Hi Divyanshu

    I might try setting my intention to study the night before I planned to and the morning I planned to. Mornings and evenings we are more “suggestible” as our brain wave frequency is much more relaxed. Happy studies!

    XO, Andrea

  • Divyanshu Jadon
    Posted August 18, 2017 2:57 am 0Likes

    It worked. I’m happy.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted August 18, 2017 10:30 am 0Likes

    glad to hear it Divyanshu <3

  • how to know if your relationship is over
    Posted September 17, 2017 8:35 am 0Likes

    Keep the faith, my Internet friend, You are a first-class writer and deserve to be heard.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted September 17, 2017 9:44 am 0Likes

    Why thank you <3

  • Asmi Dutta
    Posted January 2, 2018 6:13 pm 0Likes

    I want to slim down, but I eat a lot though i Keep thinking and acting like I am thin I always imagine and visualize that am I thin. Am I getting closer to becoming skinnier.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted January 2, 2018 7:22 pm 0Likes

    Hi Asmi, you may find this short video on weight loss and the LOA useful. Enjoy! https://raiseyourvibrationtoday.com/2017/06/26/law-of-attraction-weight-loss-secret/

  • Luana Souza
    Posted January 7, 2018 5:56 pm 0Likes

    Obrigada pelas dicas, adorei o site, muito completo, vou acompanhar mais.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted January 8, 2018 10:32 am 0Likes

    Thanks Luana!

  • shiva
    Posted February 25, 2018 11:42 am 0Likes

    It worked.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted February 25, 2018 1:14 pm 0Likes

    Good to hear Shiva:)

  • Biblo Edward
    Posted April 3, 2018 7:37 am 0Likes

    The most essential secret that have learnt from you,is that one should not place limitations on the capacity of the universe.Let the universe avail to you all your desires in its own timing.Your work is just to feel good,because when you feel good you are always in the process of attracting something you want.Whatever you want is a frequency so you just have to tune in and match to the frequency you want,if its a mansion, a car,your dream job, a beautiful wife it will all manifest according to the size of your imagination and your level of your commitment towards achieving your dreams.Have a marvelous and a joyous life everyone.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 3, 2018 3:03 pm 0Likes

    Absolutely Biblio. Well put.

  • Azar Aftimos
    Posted April 8, 2018 12:46 pm 0Likes

    There are no words to express my appreciation and gratitude to you as you are continually share your knowledge and experience with people with love. Also, the wonderful mastering technique you have in presenting deep and thorough topics and issues in simple words is an amazing characteristic you have. Again, thank you Andrea very much. Peace and love.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 8, 2018 6:50 pm 0Likes

    You are very kind Azar, thank you for your feedback! <3

  • Lovespells
    Posted April 17, 2018 2:20 am 0Likes

    The law of attraction will help you to meet the ideal partner, if you allow yourself this. Know that you can not change anyone except yourself, do not try to use the law for a negative purpose. It will not work, because you do not have your own vibrations and thoughts. You can only change yourself. Therefore, a lovespells works only when you change it.

    An important step in building relationships and love is the discovery and entry of the right person into your life. That’s why the statements “I’m open for love relationships” and “I let love come to me now” are so strong that they need to be repeated very often.

    Focus on the life you want to have, next to your beloved or loved one. Feel the joy, gratitude and peace to raise the right vibration to attract this person. You need at any time to be available for lovespells. Focus on the desired slide and attractiveness. Do not worry about when, where and how it will happen. Know that you can meet a person at any time. The speed of arrival is directly related to the strength and magnetism of your thoughts, intentions and desires.

  • anita
    Posted May 6, 2018 6:45 am 0Likes

    You are doing a great work.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted May 6, 2018 3:13 pm 0Likes

    Thanks Anita 🙂

  • Ash shiv
    Posted October 5, 2018 7:40 am 0Likes

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  • karst
    Posted November 29, 2018 6:00 am 0Likes

    Very good article. I really appreciate! Thank you!
    It is a long article but clearly described. It’s what I’m experiencing in my life. This type of information is very important for those of us who are looking for a change.

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  • Divya
    Posted November 7, 2022 3:06 am 0Likes

    Hi Andrea… I felt good during and after reading your article…I have wished for abundant wealth in life…

    Have a wonderful time dear

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