8 Things I Don’t Give a Damn About Anymore (Thanks to the Law of Attraction)
I used to get stressed out about pretty much everything. It didn’t take much to piss me off.
Today, I look back on my life years ago and wonder how I got through the day. It’s amazing how many concerns and worries I used to drag around with me! Maybe you can relate…
See, when you become an active student and practitioner of the Law of Attraction life can change in dramatic ways. For me, I’ve found that a lot of the big changes came in the form of worries I was able to let go of.
When you take an active stance to become more “positively-minded” you find you drop a lot of the drama and stress from your life. As you drop the worries, you start to realize that the worries were (ironically) the cause for the problems you were worried about in the first place.
Without the plethora of worries, problems magically begin to evaporate from your life.
In time, you start to fully comprehend that there’s just really no sense in worrying about anything. Without worry and stress, life becomes so much easier and more pleasant by default. When you really understand this concept, letting go of your worries becomes habitual.
So today, with this in mind, I’d like to share with you a few things I don’t give a damn about anymore thanks to the Law of Attraction. Each item on this list was something that SERIOUSLY bothered me a decade ago, but is not even remotely a concern for me today.
Things I don’t give a damn about anymore:
1. When things break or need repair.
If I’ve got the money, I fix it or replace it. Problem solved. Move on.
P.S., when you take this attitude rather than the “stress and worry about it” attitude, good things usually happen. You may find that on the back end of the repair is something really wonderful you never would have had if you hadn’t needed the repair in the first place.
2. Preparing for things in advance.
I’ve learned that if I am in a good mood and ready to tackle the day, everything gets done at the perfect time. All that extra hassle of getting things prepared “early” just killed my vibe, and didn’t make me any more efficient than I am now.
Trust the flow, it gets things done much more efficiently than any planning you could possibly do in advance.
3. If someone walks out of my life.
Hey, we’re all unique individuals, and not everyone is going to appreciate who we are and that’s ok. I’m too busy being the best me I can be to jump through hoops in an attempt to pull stragglers back into my life.
Maybe they’ll come back, and maybe they won’t, but I know my life will keep getting better regardless. Besides, when a door swings shut today I know for a fact another one just opened, and I’m excited to see what’s behind it.
There are great people all around you who will like you for exactly who you are. Stay open to those people, and let the ones who don’t appreciate you find better matches for themselves. You’ll all be better off.
4. Holding on to receipts.
Technology has made returns 1000% easier without having a receipt. And if I can’t return something, what’s the worst that happens? I’m out a little money. Whoop-dee-doo. I’lll make more.
I don’t plan for the worst case scenario anymore, and I’ve got a lot less paper floating around in my reality as a positive result.
5. Being interrupted by people.
I used to HATE when I was engrossed in a task and someone would call me, or stop me to talk or ask a question. Knowing what I know now though, I’m now much more open to the interruption.
I’ve found that when people interrupt me, it’s often because they are bringing me something I need or have asked for. You’d be surprised what amazing things come your way when you open up to people, rather than immediately shut them out.
6. When people get mad at me.
They’ll get over it, and if they don’t-oh well. Why should that be my problem?
I don’t expect to be perfect, and I don’t expect other people will be perfect either…so if someone wants to get mad at me for being imperfect, that’s on them-not me.
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7. Traffic jams, road construction and “bad drivers.”
I used to think people were just getting in my way on the roads, almost as if on purpose! Now, when things like this happen, I assume either I am in a chaotic mood and attracted it, OR that I am being slowed down for a good reason.
Today, I know when I trust the journey, it is working out for me in the best possible way (even if it’s going slow). Turn on some good music and enjoy the drive.
8. People finding out my “secrets.”
I used to have a Real Housewives-caliber walk-in closet packed to the brim with skeletons I hoped no one would ever find. It was too much work trying to keep all of those secrets, so I let them all out.
The way I see it, if someone really takes offense to my openness with my checkered past, it’s probably because they themselves are struggling to keep their own skeletons from spilling out. I’m just too glad I’m no longer burdened by mine to worry about what other people think of them anymore.
How about you?
So how about you? Can you relate to any of these shifts or perhaps are there other things you’ve learned to let go of?
Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences below in the comments. I love reading them!
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Lovely! So happy for you and how your life has improved. I see so many people I know doing what you used to do (…husband, friends), I wish they could all learn the law of attraction but I know it’s something they have to be ready for. A long time ago someone tried to tell me about it and I dismissed it, didn’t understand how it worked. I didn’t understand the mysteries of the universe….quantum physics, God, me and everyone else joined together, and the power of thought and intention. Keep spreading the word Andrea!
Thanks Colleen–yes you are right, we all have to come to it at our own time, don’t we! Glad we both received the message <3
Love this and all your articles and videos…you’ve helped me tremendously and I thank you for that…:)
Thanks for the positive feedback Joanne!
why do we keep accumulating limiting beliefs from time to time. As we clear our minds of one, another one surfaces or builds up. Is there something that we can change inherently to avoid these beliefs from taking shape ?
Our reality is built upon infinite limitation…so I feel the goal isn’t to eradicate limitation, but rather to continually shift and mold it into higher and higher levels that are more preferable to you. There will ALWAYS be something you’d like to improve or gain, that is the essence of the flow of life <3
I’m tejashwini, 3 months back I left my job to prepare for my govt exam, presently I’m unemployed I have an hope to pass my govt exam & I believe, but still sometimes I feel down because I don’t even have money to pay my rent. I need your words please. Thank you
Excellent article. Thank you.
Yeah there are a few things i do not give a damn about anymore since i became aware of the Law of attraction:
1.I never rush anymore even when i am running late.
2.Not bothered if i have a girlfriend or not.
3.Dont worry anymore.
4.When things appear not to be working out.
I love reading your articles and watching the videos! They always inspire me and of course are the exact things I need at that moment!
I have also let go of alot of these same things: road rage, preparing for tomorrow, reacting when interrupted, etc. I do have some slack in money area though….worry due to lack. That one I am working on!!
Thank you again for these articles and videos you open us up to!
Thank you Dear Andrea.
Your little posts of encouragement makes it eaisier and more meaningful to go through life !!
Thank you Pavithra, that means a lot <3
Thanks for the positive feedback Jeri! I appreciate you <3
Oh yes Myles, the rushing when running late–that one took me a long while but was so huge in my reality. Thanks for sharing! <3
Thanks Anonymous! <3
Hi Teju! I would say that the biggest transformations and biggest achievements are born from places like this. When life knocks you down, the upside is HUGE because it causes you to focus like no other time.
Here are some affirmations you may find useful right now to keep your mind as focused in the positive as you can. Best wishes to you-this will resolve itself and you will find yourself on the other end of it. I’m rooting for you.
Hi Andrea, yes I can totally relate to all of these, except for being interrupted (being an introvert who gets engrossed, this does still bug me)…. but the rest…. most definitely!
LOL Heather, I am an introvert too–I think interruptions bother us more than the extroverts (at least, that has been my observation!). <3
I liked this one really well. Truth is it takes a conscience effort sometimes to let things go over a period of time. But I have been pretty good at most of the stuff you talked about and glad to see others are making positive changes in their lives especially too. Thanks. Larry K.
Thanks for sharing your input Larry, and yes it does take a little while to clear out all the old programming doesn’t it? <3
I used to worry about these all the time… but why? I just use the law of Attraction to clear my good name and all that .. I am letting these things go.. and it makes me happy.. especially thenpreparing for things in advance. Hate doing that anyway.. it makes me so unorganised
Yes Dean, it just works so much better when you make the choices as they come, doesn’t it? <3