20 Signs That You Really Understand the Law of Attraction

Some people believe that all you have to do to use the Law of Attraction is just visualize what you want. However, people who really understand the Law of Attraction realize it takes a lot more than a few stray thoughts to create the life of your dreams. 

Even though the LOA is simple (ask, believe, receive), those who thoroughly understand it realize that in some cases, a person must make a total lifestyle change in order to harness its full potential.

While each of us have our bad moments and we’re never “perfect,” you will still see that if you really understand the Law of Attraction, you probably strive to check off many of the items on the list below.  You might not always get everything right, but you attempt to do many of the following things:

  1. You dream bigger than most people.
  2. You have positive expectations.
  3. You smile at strangers.
  4. You avoid petty, unnecessary drama.
  5. Life just isn’t as serious as it used to be.
  6. You point out the good in people.
  7. You take time for mental relaxation, and understand that a racing mind is your worst enemy.
  8. Fun is a top priority.
  9. You let shit go.
  10. You rarely talk about your problems (only when you need help or when you really need to vent).
  11. When things fall apart, you’re looking for the silver lining.
  12. You avoid mean-spirited conversation and gossip.
  13. You identify synchronicities throughout the day.
  14. Laughter is part of your daily routine.
  15. You stop to smell the roses.
  16. You make it your intention to go with the flow.
  17. You take responsibility for your life, and everything in it.
  18. You trust that everything happens for a reason.
  19. You forgive people for their mistakes.
  20. You give thanks frequently.

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So, do you think you understand the Law of Attraction pretty well? 

Again, we’re never going to be perfect (and we’re allowed to have bad days!), but if you find yourself reaching for these thoughts and behaviors on a regular basis, chances are you really “get” that you are the creator of your own reality.  Even better, you’re probably having success creating a lot of good things in your life!

Would you add anything to this list?  If so, comment below and let me know!

XO, Andrea (Law of Attraction Educator)

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  • Bobby
    Posted October 27, 2015 2:51 pm 0Likes

    Ahhhh this article is SOOOO me !!!! I wish I could convey in words the beauty, the magic I have been feeling working with the LOA on my side. It hasn’t come overnight but I totally get it now and literally all 20 of those signs are what I am experiencing currently!!! Thank you thank you!!!

  • Michael Christensen
    Posted October 27, 2015 6:43 pm 0Likes

    Thank you Andrea! Awesome post. I love nr 9 and with that I could cross out Nr 14 😉 (15/20) working on the last 5 🙂

  • Sandra Girard
    Posted November 8, 2015 12:41 pm 0Likes

    Other than by example, how can we help others overcome suffering and have a positive attitude?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted November 8, 2015 1:39 pm 0Likes

    Great question Sandra. Yes, example is a great way to help. Also, focus on the other person’s positive qualities. Become more aware when they are laughing smiling and feeling good. Your focus will draw more of these times from them. Additionally, try to avoid talking about their pain too much…that will also help:) -Andrea

  • Sandra Girard
    Posted November 9, 2015 2:00 am 0Likes

    Thankyou. Very helpful. Will give it a try.

  • Cristoffer
    Posted December 1, 2015 12:19 pm 0Likes

    I totally agree with all 20 points (and as a individual this is the foundation i radiate on) I think the book “The Monk Who sold his ferrari” shows a good way in pratice how to sum this up in practical life.

    The only thing i feel is missing in the realization of others (and why i say so is beacuse its an important part in feeling that one belongs, wich is essential for self acceptance) from an introveted perspective. I think “The dictionary of obscure sorrows perfectly defines the element i feel is missing)

    n. the realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own—populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness—an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you’ll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted December 1, 2015 3:16 pm 0Likes

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts Cristoffer, I appreciate your unique perspective. PS, I will have to look up that book! 🙂 -Andrea

  • Crystal Davis
    Posted September 23, 2017 9:30 am 0Likes

    Love your work Andrea!! I’d just like to emphasize that those bad days are part of really understanding law of attraction.for we know that everything is a gift… in darkness we see the light. We actually bring that light and expand the Universe through those experiences. It’s just so easy to overlook that negative emotions are actually positive!!!! I’ve found those bad times to be the greatest gifts to becoming who I really am!! It’s how I’m mastering the 20 signs that you so beautifully detailed here! It’s really all good. Finally, getting to not take things so seriously and enjoy the journey. xoxoxo, ~C

  • John freeman
    Posted September 24, 2017 5:46 am 0Likes

    Nice one. Very handy pointers. It shows I’m closer than I thought and I’ve got some areas I know I can work on. Thanks Andrea!

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted September 24, 2017 8:15 am 0Likes

    Thanks for the positive feedback John!

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted September 24, 2017 8:15 am 0Likes

    True point Crystal, coming to see the “positive in the negative” is a true transformational shift <3

  • Anonymous
    Posted November 7, 2023 8:10 am 0Likes

    Hi Andrea, if law of attraction can give us all possibilities, why can’t we have a perfect life?

  • Honey
    Posted November 7, 2023 8:13 am 0Likes

    Hi Andrea,

    I wanna believe that we can achieve a perfect life. Is this possible?

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