Love Attraction Video Series (Part 1 of 3)

Thanks for checking out this video series on love attraction. In this video we are going to explore the question: “Can the Law of Attraction bring me the love I really want?

This video series is for anyone who has been looking to attract a loving (and lasting) relationship with the ideal partner, but who has had a difficult time either finding or keeping the right mate.

Whether you want to attract a soul mate or twin flame, someone new or someone specific, this video series should answer many of your questions about the process and will show you just how possible it is to do this!

In this first video of this 3-part series, I will show you why some people have difficulty attracting or keeping love with the Law of Attraction, and I’ll teach you how to avoid the same pitfall so many people fall into.  This will help you get on the right foot when it comes to manifesting the ideal relationship.

Please comment down below and share your questions and thoughts about this video and the topic of love attraction. I read all comments and do my best to respond personally, so feel free to get in touch-even if you prefer to do so “anonymously.”

Click here to see the second video in this series.

XO, Andrea

PS. If you are interested in learning more about love attraction,  I also have a love attraction video e-course you are welcome to check out. Click this link to learn more about my love attraction course.


  • Anonymous
    Posted April 25, 2016 3:40 pm 0Likes

    Andrea this answers so much for me. Thank you!

  • Anita
    Posted April 25, 2016 3:46 pm 0Likes

    Thank you for sharing that exercise on limiting beliefs, that uncovered a LOT for me. I’m looking forward to putting these ideas to good use.

  • Davey
    Posted April 25, 2016 4:40 pm 0Likes

    Andrea I have a question. One of the things I wrote down was that it didn’t work out because he was too busy at work. Does this mean I have a belief that my ex was too busy for me or that anyone would be too busy for me? Thank you.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 26, 2016 2:30 pm 0Likes

    Thank you Anita!

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 26, 2016 2:30 pm 0Likes

    Fantastic Anonymous-thank you for your feedback!

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 26, 2016 2:32 pm 0Likes

    Hi Davey…there is probably something specific to your ex, but also specific to your beliefs about whether or not you will get enough attention from a potential mate. This is especially the case if you’ve seen this pattern before with a previous partner. I would spend some time looking for evidence that the people you care about are willing to give you attention and spend time with you 🙂

  • kB
    Posted April 26, 2016 2:59 pm 0Likes

    Hey Andrea-I’m really looking forward to learning how to use that trick in the next video. Keep em coming!!!!

  • Anonymous
    Posted April 26, 2016 3:23 pm 0Likes

    Thank u beautiful

  • Sonny
    Posted April 26, 2016 3:26 pm 0Likes

    my question is how can I use this law to attract a girl I used to date back into my life please and thank you your the best

  • Anonymous
    Posted April 26, 2016 4:06 pm 0Likes

    Thank you. I just learned something about my beliefs I didn’t know before. This makes a lot of sense. Wow!

  • Adele W
    Posted April 26, 2016 4:44 pm 0Likes

    Andrea can you use the loa to become more confident? I really like this one guy but I don’t know how to get him to notice me! Any help is appreciated!

  • Ann
    Posted April 26, 2016 8:50 pm 0Likes

    We didn’t know you were so pretty.
    You have kept that hidden from us.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 27, 2016 7:35 am 0Likes

    Aww-thank you Ann. I appreciate the compliment <3

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 27, 2016 7:37 am 0Likes

    Hi Adele! Absolutely you can. Make sure to check out the tip in the next video in the series, it really helps with confidence..I’ll be posting it on Thursday. If you are on my email distribution list you’ll get a notification of it when it goes live 🙂

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 27, 2016 7:37 am 0Likes

    Anonymous-so glad to hear it! 🙂

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 27, 2016 7:38 am 0Likes

    Hi Sonny! Great question. I will be going into that exact question specifically in the third video in this series so I’m so glad you asked. It will be live on Saturday. If you are on my email distribution list you’ll get notification when I put it up:)

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 27, 2016 7:39 am 0Likes

    Thanks KB!

  • Donnamarie
    Posted April 27, 2016 9:21 am 0Likes

    Thank you andrea 🙂

  • China
    Posted April 27, 2016 1:42 pm 0Likes

    I’m not sure what I want in a partner yet. Is this a problem?

  • Anonymous
    Posted April 27, 2016 2:49 pm 0Likes

    thank you so much but the problem is when trying to focus on the positive side ; i can not control my mood all the time

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 27, 2016 4:04 pm 0Likes

    Good question Anonymous

    It is true, when you are down trying to “think positive” is just about impossible, isn’t it?

    My thoughts are that when you are feeling neutral or pretty good-try to focus on the positive. But when you’re feeling bad, go easy on yourself and reach for distraction rather than positive thoughts.

    It’s helpful to tell yourself something like “I don’t have to think about this right now” or “this will all make sense when I feel a little better.” Then, I try to distract myself from whatever got me down and engage in an activity that is soothing or distracting (like reading, meditating, going for a walk or doing some kind of easy chore or errand).

    Once I’m feeling better, positive thoughts will come much more naturally.

    Just remember to avoid beating up on yourself for not being positive when you are down as this will only make you feel worse. Accept the bad moment, accept yourself as you are, and then give yourself permission to think about it later and distract yourself. Keep repeating this process whenever you see a down turn and the bad moods will get less and less frequent and it will become easier to direct your focus where you’d like it to be.

    The next video in this series will offer another easy trick to boost optimism too. Check it out and let me know what you think.


  • anneleen van den broeck
    Posted April 27, 2016 4:15 pm 0Likes

    this gives hope and is very encouraging..thank you

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 27, 2016 4:30 pm 0Likes

    Thank you Anneleen!

  • Lyn
    Posted April 28, 2016 2:19 am 0Likes

    Thank you so much for this video. This is a new area for me to learn Andrea. How do we apply this to an existing relationship e.g when we get frustrated with our SO do not reciprocate our kindness and love?

  • Karenna
    Posted April 28, 2016 7:55 am 0Likes

    I know I am supposed to be positive, but it’s hard for me to stay positive. What do I do?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 28, 2016 8:02 am 0Likes

    Hi Lyn!

    I’ve found it’s helpful to do a couple of things. The first is to step away from whatever is frustrating and perhaps do some deep breathing to calm ourselves. Whatever is going on, step away and distract yourself with something else. Disengage from arguments and try your best to ignore the annoyances. This can be hard at first but with a little practice it gets much easier.

    When you are in a good emotional place, spend some time focusing on the things you appreciate in your partner. In fact, spend a little time each day looking for things to appreciate in your partner when you are feeling good.

    What will happen is over time the lessened focus on the frustrating circumstances will cause them to dwindle. However, the extra focus on the things we appreciate about our partner will be amplified.

    Using this exercise religiously will better harmonize you with your partner. I personally use these techniques with my husband and we have a great relationship (we’ll be married 10 years this November). He’s not “perfect” of course and neither am I, but I am very aware of all of the things he does for me that I appreciate which keeps me happy and keeps him happy as well.

    XO, Andrea

  • sofi
    Posted April 28, 2016 9:04 am 0Likes

    Is part 3 of the series available, yet? Am I just not finding it? I really appreciate that you made these interesting videos. Thank you.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 28, 2016 10:22 am 0Likes

    Hi Sofi:)

    I am making a few additions and improvements to part three today actually so the link to that video isn’t currently live. If you are on my email list you’ll get it in your inbox on Saturday I believe. If you aren’t on that list yet, here is where you can sign up for it. When you sign up you also get a free ebook on recovering from breakups if that’s something you find useful as well.

    Glad to hear you are enjoying the videos!

  • Carmen
    Posted April 28, 2016 2:14 pm 0Likes

    Hi Andrea – I emailed you a while back. I am really glad to see this! I will put it to work!

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 28, 2016 2:26 pm 0Likes

    Great Carmen! Thanks for the feedback and for touching base:)

  • ken
    Posted April 28, 2016 4:46 pm 0Likes

    i have been courting this terrific lady for over 3 years we get along great do things together , but she does not like to be touched or hugged ????? i have talked to her about this many times but never heard an answer ??? She says she really likes me but thats it… She has so many great quality i hate to give her up… BUT???

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 28, 2016 5:56 pm 0Likes

    Interesting question Ken…does this woman think of you as a platonic interest or as a romantic interest? If she thinks of you platonically, I think the best bet would be to let go of her for the time being while you worked out some limiting beliefs (and definitely watch the third video in this series when it comes out on Saturday for more information on attracting specific people who aren’t currently interested in you).

    If she already considers you a romantic interest, the best bet is to focus on the things she does that you appreciate and love, and try your best to avoid thinking too much about this habit you dislike. If she already considers you a romantic partner and there are things about her you love and enjoy, it might just take some small thought adjustments to get things on a more preferable track.

    XO, Andrea

  • sofi
    Posted April 28, 2016 6:10 pm 0Likes

    Thank you ! It is so considerate of you to get back me.

  • Anonymous Heart
    Posted April 28, 2016 10:28 pm 0Likes

    So glad I took the time to watch your videos, Andrea.
    Where does one go when the limiting belief is “unworthiness”? Or I’m not good enough for a great relationship? How does the power of LOA work in this instance?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted April 29, 2016 7:53 am 0Likes

    Hi Anonymous Heart! Yes, this is the “heart” of the issue for so many people:) I wrote an article on how self-love is necessary to claim your soul mate a while back you might enjoy, here is the link if you are interested.

    My best suggestion is to start practicing being kind to yourself. Build yourself up daily. Remind yourself of your strengths and compliment yourself regularly. Simultaneously, avoid beating up on yourself. When you feel self-criticism coming on, tell yourself “I don’t have to think about this right now,” do some deep breathing and switch your focus to something else.

    Over time, the enhanced focus of self-love and the lessened focused on self-criticism will naturally build feelings of worthiness. At first, this will be strange and might feel a little forced, but as you focus more on self-love the Law of Attraction will bring you more self-loving thoughts and reasons to love yourself.

    XO, Andrea

  • Neerja
    Posted June 19, 2017 6:58 am 0Likes

    Hi Andrea , Really enjoyed your part 1 video . Have started working on it . Are the part 2 & 3 out yet ? Would love to learn from them too ! Thanks a ton for doing a marvellous work .

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted June 19, 2017 9:58 am 0Likes

    Absolutely Neerja. Here is the link to the 2nd video, and if you scroll down in the post you’ll find the link to the 3rd as well<3

  • Karishma
    Posted June 25, 2017 6:15 pm 0Likes

    Nice video Andrea. However the reason my last and only relationship so far didn’t work out was because he was unavailable. How does that reveals my limiting beliefs? Thank you in advance

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted June 26, 2017 6:20 pm 0Likes

    It depends…could mean any number of things. I might ask myself “why does a man being unavailable make me feel bad about ME?” When you find an answer that strikes an emotional chord, you’ve got your belief:)

  • Anonymous
    Posted September 5, 2018 5:34 am 0Likes

    can i attract my ex if she is dating someone else?
    what if they are in love?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted September 5, 2018 9:51 am 0Likes

    It is possible, but there are some factors to understand about how this works. Here is a link to a video series on love attraction you may find helpful (it’s the first video, but there are links to subsequent videos in the post if you want to watch them all)

  • Anonymous
    Posted September 18, 2018 2:48 am 0Likes

    I want to be a healer like you 😇

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted September 18, 2018 9:42 am 0Likes

    Well then, I say go for it Anonymous <3

  • SK
    Posted February 12, 2019 3:01 am 0Likes

    Hello Andrea,
    I’ve watched the three videos and have a few doubts. How can this work if my SP has gotten his family and another girl’s family involved for marriage? He says he loves me but his family has issues with my religion. Now there’s another girl. What should my thoughts be on a regular basis about us being together? How do I get rid of the tormenting thoughts? Also, how can I get results within a month? My SP and me aren’t in contact.

Leave a comment