Quick Law of Attraction Tip: Remember to Mind Your Business!

Do you remember to mind your business throughout your busy days? 

This is SO important to the process of conscious creation. It cannot be understated!

Each of us is only capable of creating in our own reality. I cannot create for you, and you cannot create for me. I can only create for myself.

What other people do, think and believe has nothing to do with you.

You only have the capacity to judge others by your own perspective. You are unable to live inside of someone else’s perspective and truly understand where they stand, and you are certainly incapable of changing their perspective from where you stand.

Now, it IS is true that you can align with versions of people who are positive, uplifting and happy. Yes, this is 100% possible! However, this happens because YOU become a match to them, not because THEY become a match to you.

This is a subtle, but extremely important distinction. We cannot change other people. We can only change ourselves. Then, those who match our new vibe come to us.

Try to remember this next time someone bothers you or you feel you want to change someone in your environment. Remember, all of the change occurs within.

So always remember to mind your business, and do the only thing you can: focus on your own thoughts, beliefs and actions. Anything else is wasted effort, trust me!

XO, Andrea

Law of Attraction Educator

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  • Milos
    Posted January 3, 2017 2:12 pm 0Likes

    I was recently looking for right words how to explain my 9 years old, what he has to do, when he would like to have more friends with particular interests. And here we go:

    “We cannot change other people. We can only change ourselves. Then, those who match our new vibe come to us.”

    Thanks for it.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted January 3, 2017 7:12 pm 0Likes

    Excellent words Milos…your son is lucky to have a parent who “gets it!” 🙂

    Happy New Year <3

  • Anonymous
    Posted January 8, 2017 12:20 pm 0Likes

    Very true!! Of late me and my Dad share different frequencies he’s more into detailing which often leads to cribbing whereas I prefer to choose the thoughts on the positive front(thanks to you, I got introduced to LOA last May I think from then on I shift my energy level if it swifts in the other way and try to be happy, cheerful and positive) so I let him be in his world and just have very minimal talk, wonder what he thinks about this attitude and may consider as egoistic but I prefer to keep it the calmer way which helps me to restore that I’m sane without pressurising on what he thinks.


  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted January 9, 2017 9:08 am 0Likes

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts Anonymous! Yes, often when we learn about the LOA and start applying positive thinking we find ourselves in different dynamics with the people in our lives. I like that you have found a way of interacting with your father that helps you stay balanced and keeps pressure off of him to “change.” Wonderful!

    I have found in my own life when I ‘live and let live’ like this, people can be different than me but we can still get along. It takes a lot of the stress out of my interactions with people.

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