This Is ONLY a Universe of Inclusion

Today, I have a public service announcement: please remember, this is only a universe of inclusion, not exclusion.

So, perhaps you have learned by now that you are the creator of your reality.  Perhaps you have come to know the Law of Attraction, and you understand that you have the power to change your life with your thoughts and your focus.

Have you also come to understand that we live in a universe of inclusion?  In other words, we can only ever “include” into our realities, but we cannot “exclude?”

Ultimately, we create through our focus, and that’s it.  Whatever we are focused on expands (be it good or be it bad).

If I allow myself to focus on how beautiful the world is, it will become more beautiful to me. However, if I allow myself dwell on the things I dislike about the world, they become more frustrating to me. Whatever I focus on remains relevant in my reality.

In other words, the words no, not, don’t, won’t and shouldn’t provide very little benefit to a conscious creator.

So, that’s the rub.  Yes, you are the creator of your reality, but you only create by inclusion, not by exclusion. You can only put things “in” your reality, you cannot take things “out.” You are an allower, not an excluder.

Understanding this element to the Law of Attraction is highly critical.  If there is something you don’t like or don’t want, fighting against it will. not. help. you. P.E.R.I.O.D.

Arguing your point won’t help you.

Blaming someone else won’t help you.

Making new laws and rules won’t help you.

Trying to “fix” problems won’t help you.

There is simply zero way for you to eliminate what you don’t want by focusing on it, because whatever you focus on expands. Sometimes this really sucks, but it is what it is!

So how do you deal with things you don’t want? Are you doomed to live with the things you don’t want forever?

Well, fortunately, there IS a loophole when it comes to unwanted things.

Give them less of your focus.  Find a way to make peace with them and let them go. Let them fade out of your consciousness.

Put them on a ship and let them sail away. Invite in all the good you can, but turn away from the bad.

Sure, people may think you are insensitive or illogical or uncaring or ignorant, but you know better. You know the reality you want to live in does not coexist with those thoughts, subjects and issues. It’s your reality, after all, so why put up with unwanted things?

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Remember, you create your reality by allowing it in, and the only way anything gets in is through your focus.  Use your focus wisely, and be willing to let go of subjects and issues that are not relevant to what you are wanting, regardless of what anyone else is doing. After all, most people haven’t a clue about conscious creation. You know better.

Be the gatekeeper of your reality, and be selective.  You aren’t required to think about, discuss or argue things you don’t like.  You aren’t required to let them in past the gate. You get to decide what sticks around in your reality. You get to decide what’s relevant.

So the next time you see something you don’t like or don’t want, remind yourself: “I get to decide what is relevant in my life.”

Truthfully, there’s a lot of stuff going on every day in your reality, so naturally not everything that pops up is going to be perfect.  That’s OK. Things don’t have to be perfect because you always get to decide how you choose to view them.

There will be things you don’t like and there will be situations that aren’t always comfortable, but you have the ability to let bad parts fade out of the picture.  You have the ability to focus on other topics. You have the ability to find the silver linings.

You can turn away from war, and look for peace.

You can look away from hate, and search for love.

You can ignore the ignorant, and embrace the understanding.

You can find prosperity over poverty, health over illness and fulfillment over discouragement. 

You can choose to focus in whichever direction you wish.

This is your universe of inclusion, so use your ability to include to your highest advantage. <3 

XO, Andrea

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  • R
    Posted June 14, 2016 3:04 am 0Likes

    Hi Andrea,

    You’re just wonderful, I did have a couple of days that were exactly like the scenario that you’ve just listed above. I did try my level best not to argue, blame, get irritated but in on of the articles you had stated it is ok to experience such kind of emotions but once you feel better we should look for the good feeling thoughts and not dwell around it. I was feeling OK doing that ( as in my conscious mind i knew i shouldn’t speak much about this matter/topic considering the LOA, at the same time was also wished to get those thoughts out of my system). This article asks us to divert it altogether and fetch for really good feelings and not just bog down with the other unwanted thoughts. I just loved this line “I get to decide what is relevant in my life” so true!!! I feel very much elevated in my thoughts and vibration.

    Thank you!!


  • Cara
    Posted June 14, 2016 10:11 am 0Likes

    Thank you for this reminder! I was having a blah day and now remembering that I have control and power over how I feel and my thoughts. I can change this day around! 🙂

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted June 14, 2016 10:48 am 0Likes

    Thanks Cara! You are right, too-we always have the power to turn it around:) Sending you some well-wishes for a good day. XO, Andrea

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted June 14, 2016 10:49 am 0Likes

    Thank you R- you always write the nicest comments. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this one. Glad it resonated with you. XO, Andrea

  • Bobby
    Posted June 14, 2016 11:17 pm 0Likes

    Great article as always!!!! Thank you!

    I want to e-mail you in the morning, actually I am going to .. I want to mention something about burning intentions, and it being a good or bad idea (because would it be focusing on them) anyways I am just saying this now to remind myself to include that LOL !

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted June 15, 2016 11:43 am 0Likes

    Absolutely, Bobby, shoot me an email when you’ve got some time. I’d love to hear from you! XO

  • NV
    Posted August 3, 2016 12:56 pm 0Likes

    if i want to let go something, write that intention, burn the paper like sending it to heaven for the highest good of all. M i including the let go reason in my life so i get more of what i am trying to let go?

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted August 3, 2016 6:22 pm 0Likes

    Hi NV, if that type of ceremony allows you to release the thought and gives you closure than I say keep doing it. Whatever you can do to lessen your focus on the thought the better:)

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