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Are You Too Independent?
Are You TOO Independent? (LOA)
We often talk about and hear about how important it is to be “independent.” That being said, though, are you TOO independent?
This is a topic I’ve been noticing more and more in my work with the Law of Attraction. The idea of dependence vs. independence, the idea of receiving assistance or doing it all on your own.
Granted, being able to do things on your own is definitely a step up from requiring constant assistance. When we are totally dependent, after all, we aren’t capable of rising to the challenges in our life! We are paralyzed when left alone.
That being said, though, this doesn’t mean that receiving help from others in an inherent weakness of character. And that is where I believe we’ve taken our view of dependence to. We’ve overvalued independence to the point where many of us simply refuse the help of others and the universe!
I believe as a collective, we’ve gotten to the threshold of where we can take independence. It’s time to step into a new paradigm for our collective growth: one not of dependence or independence, but rather of “interdependence.”
So, in today’s quick video I will explain how it is possible to be too independent, and how to step more into an “interdependent” frame of mind. Enjoy!
XO, Andrea (Law of Attraction Educator)
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3 Comments
Stephanie
Hi Andrea,
I am trying to be more focused on myself but when I am bored, I ask universe to show my ex bf.
And it happens.
What should I think of such signs?
Love,
Steph
Andrea Schulman
Hi Steph, Just that you are getting what you are focused on (being shown the bf). It doesn’t mean you are doing anything right or wrong just that you’d like to see him and you aren’t resistant to him showing up in that fashion
Stephanie
I initially thought that universe gave me signs that my wish is possible. That’s why universe shower him up.