If you want to become a master of the Law of Attraction, it is important that you keep good company.  Our lives become what we think about, talk about and do.  Because you spend a lot of time thinking about your friends, talking to them and doing things with them, your energy vibration will tend to match up pretty closely with theirs.

Therefore, choosing to hang around people who are uplifting and positively minded will greatly benefit you. Their higher vibrations will rub off on you, which makes it easier for you to manifest the life of your dreams.

Some people overlook the connection between the Law of Attraction and friends. Unfortunately, while these people may be able to raise their vibrations while they are away from the crowd, whenever they engage with negative people they unknowingly absorb lower vibrational energy.  This isn’t such a big deal if you only periodically spend time with negative people, but if the bulk of your friends and acquaintances are negatively minded it will lower your vibration significantly.

Here are a few qualities to look for in a friend who can help to raise your vibration.  Even if they don’t know or believe in the Law of Attraction, someone who has all of these characteristics is likely already a master of it:

The Law of Attraction and Friends: What to Look For

  1. They speak in the positive: Words are very powerful.  What we say and what we listen to affect our beliefs about the world.  Surrounding yourself with people who believe in the possibilities rather than the impossibilities will help you to believe that you too can do anything.  Spend time with people who say “I can” much more often than they say “I can’t.”
  2. They are supportive: Many people in the world today do not like to see others succeed.  When someone ignores or belittles the achievements of others it is an indication that their vibration is running low.  People with very high vibrations are genuinely happy for the successes of others, because they believe that what’s best for everyone is also what’s best for themselves.  Not only will they make you feel good about your achievements, but they will also teach you to be more compassionate and loving.
  3. They have big dreams: Keeping company with people who shoot for the stars will encourage you to do the same.  The more outlandish or ridiculous the dream, the better-because it means that they have faith in manifesting just about anything.
  4. They are affectionate: Love is a high vibrational emotion.  People who regularly smile, hug and kiss radiate a higher vibrational frequency.  Vibration is contagious, so try to get close to affectionate people.

The friends you spend time with greatly affect your energy vibration.  Make friends with big dreamers who are positive, supportive and affectionate because their energy will help you become a Law of Attraction master.  You are the company you keep!

XO, Andrea

(Law of Attraction coach & educator)

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  • Kimberly
    Posted January 22, 2015 7:45 pm 0Likes

    I see you used to be a teacher. I’m counselor in a elementary/middle school. How do I raise my vibration to increase my income? As you know the field of education don’t pay well and I am financially struggling. Thx for your reply.

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted January 22, 2015 10:04 pm 0Likes

    Hi Kimberly! I understand your problem, I’ve definitely been there! The trick is to realize that your wealth doesn’t just come from your income. Try to open yourself up to seeing financial abundance in more places than just your paycheck…whenever you find money, or someone buys you a cup of coffee, or you win a scratch off ticket acknowledge that money is coming to you from more places than just your job. The more that you find evidence for money just “coming to you,” the more it will happen. Overtime, if you can master this type of thinking the financial snowball will grow for you. Just try to avoid thinking logically about “how” the money will come to you, logic will kill the magic because it is an attempt to control how the money is delivered. For the universe to deliver quickly, you need to be receptive to any and all possibilities that range from the believable (getting a raise or a promotion) to the unbelievable (some random stranger sending you a million dollar check). Best wishes!

  • Enddy P. Sunny-Udjor
    Posted January 23, 2015 1:42 am 0Likes

    Hello, thank for this wonderful piece but i have found out i do have these vibrations and sometimes negative ones though i have all the four qualities you listed, how can i improve on it on A DAILY BASIS. Please, Can you walk with me on this route?
    Thanks already,

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted January 23, 2015 1:07 pm 0Likes

    Hi Eddy! It sounds like you are on the right track, but you can always do better, right? The good news is that there are lots of things that you can do to consistently improve your vibration. If you would like a lot of ideas on how to do this I would suggest that you subscribe to my blog for daily tips and tricks to be emailed to you. To do this, scroll to the bottom of my blog and input your email where it says “Subscribe to blog via email.” I hope you find some strategies that help!

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted January 23, 2015 1:07 pm 0Likes

    *Enddy (sorry for the misspelling!)

  • Ona
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  • Bobby
    Posted July 31, 2016 8:43 am 0Likes

    I absolutely fricken loooove this article! I mean this in the least cockiest way but I believe this is why I am so abundant in friendships; because I possess these qualities. I’ve also noticed since becoming more and more aware of conscious creation I lost friends by my own choice because they were messing up my flow. Can they call me if they need anything? Sure. Do I miss them? Not at all.

    Thank you for this article! <3

    **Also love the advice you give in the comments sections**

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted July 31, 2016 9:25 am 0Likes

    Hi Bobby! Yes, you seem like you would be a great friend. Your friends are blessed to have you:) XO

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