The #1 Reason Why Your Soul Mate Is Still Out of Reach

Are you still waiting to claim your soul mate? Do any of the following scenarios strike a chord with you?

  1. You’ve been stuck with a string of Mr. or Mrs. Wrongs, one after another.
  2. You think you may have found your soul mate, but he or she just isn’t interested in committing or the timing has been off.
  3. You’ve been stuck with the same Mr. or Mrs. Wrong for a long time, and can’t seem to get out of the relationship.
  4. There don’t appear to be any Mr. or Mrs. Rights OR Wrongs anywhere, and you’ve been stuck with Mr. or Mrs. Nonexistent for a long time.

If any of those scenarios speak to you, listen up.  I’m going to tell you the #1 reason why you haven’t yet landed your soul mate, if you’ve been wanting to.  Those who are single and lovin’ it don’t really apply here.

So the reason is?


Yep, that’s all. Self-love.  Or rather, I should say, the absence of self-love. Here’s why:

We live in a universe that is governed by something called theLaw of Attraction.  With the Law of Attraction, we get more of whatever we focus on and believe in, and less of what we don’t.  We attract our expectations and beliefs about reality, and this is why the rich get richer, the poor get poorer and when it rains it pours.

When we don’t love ourselves, we make it impossible for the universe to deliver someone to us who loves us fully, and in the way we want to be loved.

When we don’t love ourselves, we project a message out into the universe that screams “I am unlovable!” and thus the universe responds by bringing back to us a reality where we feel unloved.

Instead of attracting a partner who fulfills us as a soul mate, we attract the wrong partner, or a partner who won’t commit, or no partner at all.

Related Article:Can I Get My Ex Back With the Law of Attraction?

So, if you’ve been struggling to find your soul mate, my suggestion would be to invest in loving yourself more.  Look for things you like about yourself, build yourself up, and be your biggest cheerleader in life.  Be kind to yourself, and treat yourself exactly the way you would expect the perfect mate to treat you.

Send a message to the universe that you are lovable and the Law of Attraction will respond in turn. It is law.

XO, Andrea

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  • Bobby
    Posted March 12, 2016 11:44 pm 0Likes

    I LOVE this article! It makes me sooo happy! I am projecting my love life to be absolutely endlessly fufilled with “THE ONE” and I have yet to find that (Every relationship Ive given a shot felt forced and that is ok too because I ended it knowing it wasnt “THE ONE”) but as I am on a higher path of creating myself and falling in love with myself the greater love I am manifesting!!! Thank you for this <3

    P.S. Emailing shortly :))))

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted March 14, 2016 8:42 am 0Likes

    Thanks for sharing your trip with me via email Bobby. So glad it went well for you. You are doing a great job-keep up the good work and you’ll keep manifesting more successes <3

  • Anonymous
    Posted May 30, 2016 5:46 am 0Likes

    thank yo so mich andrea that s right , i see that when am happy , confiident , and exicted i attract to me pp outside but still i did nt find the one who got my attention and feeling !

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted May 30, 2016 1:16 pm 0Likes

    Thanks for sharing your comment with me Anonymous-so glad the article resonated well with you 🙂

  • Helen
    Posted March 18, 2017 12:34 pm 0Likes

    Hi Andrea. I tried to sign up for your E-book: Moving on Fast but I keep getting an error mesasage?!

  • Andrea Schulman
    Posted March 18, 2017 12:49 pm 0Likes

    Hi Helen:)

    Thanks for letting me know. I think my opt-in form is having some technical difficulties I will investigate. Not to worry. I will add you to the list now and directly email you the ebook to the email you input on your comment form. Be on the lookout for it ASAP!

    XO, Andrea

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